Love Is Blind – You Don’t Have To Be

I just received an email from a woman that brought tears to my eyes. In this economy there are more and more women who have become casualties due to divorce. The frightening part is that their issues fall on deaf ears. There is so little help out there. Please learn from her words and prepare now! Your life can begin again and you can be happy but it’s up to you.

Claudia,

I have to write to you in hopes that it might help someone. Please tell your readers that divorce does destroy families and lives. I have been married for 23 years and have three children. My marriage was not great but I thought it was forever. He left and accused me of crazy things. The hardest part was that he convinced my daughters that I had been unfaithful. I wasn’t. He was the one with the affairs. He was the one who was never home. He was the one who didn’t consider family or children important.

He has the money to pay expensive attorneys. My electric has been shut off. I have no money for oil this winter. I have tried to get a job but there are none. I don’t know what is going to happen except that our house is in foreclosure.He doesn’t care. I am getting no support.

My girls keep asking me why I wasn’t a better wife? They say that if I had been, he wouldn’t have left. My heart is breaking. I am cold and have just applied for food stamps and welfare. I am smart and capable and I was a good wife and mother. It isn’t fair. Divorce isn’t fair. Life isn’t fair. I’m not perfect but I don’t deserve this. He is flying around the world with his latest young fling.

Sorry. I had to vent! Please tell you readers that this can happen to them.

Lost and alone in Alpharetta 

I am sharing this and I will tell you that she shared even more information than I have written. This woman was on the high end of society and lived a silver spoon life. If it happened to her, it can happen to you. Please prepare so that it won’t.