Bitter or Better after Divorce?

So you are getting divorced, what is your mindset? Do you attempt to keep perspective and learn from your mistakes or do you continue to play the blame game?

You are bitter if…

  • You remain a victim.
  • You don’t take responsibility for the happenings in your life.
  • You continually badmouth the ex.
  • You can’t get past the subject of divorce.

You are better if…

  • You own your part in the divorce.
  • You learn from your mistakes.
  • You no longer focus on the past.
  • You look forward to a happy future.

It’s perfectly okay to have a pity party for a while but not for a lifetime!

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