We are all acutely aware of the famous divorces that occur on a daily basis in the news.
The problem for so many women is that they believe what they hear in the tabloids. They often think in terms of these celebrity divorces which have absolutely no bearing on them or their divorces.
They need to look elsewhere for inspiration. They need to work on becoming healthy in their attitudes and self worth. They need to work their way back into the dating scene that is their reality, not the celebrity’s reality.
After a long or short marriage, it is difficult to change gears and get back on the track of meeting new people and experiencing new things.
The key is to live life in the present. Live it with a goal in mind and welcome each day as it comes. Take advantage of each opportunity that approaches you.
Listen to your heart about what is right for you. Think about the kind of man you want to meet and be open to chance meetings.
When you are grocery shopping or at the gym, smile and be friendly. You will be surprised at the positive reactions you will get.
When you get in the doldrums, remember that post divorce, there is always the chance to find new love. What could be better than that?
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