During your marriage, you both had friends…hopefully. As you progress down the road toward divorce, don’t turn away from your friends. By the same token, don’t assume that friends you had together will still be your friends after divorce. And don’t assume that they won’t pick sides or that they will pick your side. The […]

I have written about this subject before and am writing about it again today. The reason is that I deal with divorce every day and I see very clearly the fact that losing perspective can mean losing everything. Think about it this way. If you get caught up in anger, vindictiveness, hurt, disillusionment and abandonment […]

Please don’t get so caught up in trying to “get back” at your soon to be ex-spouse in divorce court that you lose perspective. You must focus on the whole picture! Even if he was unfaithful or abusive, keep your perspective. Think about it this way: Let’s say you have $500,000.00 in assets. You have […]

I received a call the other day from a woman in Pennsylvania, needing my help. I wrote down her number incorrectly. Please, if you are that woman, call me again. I would like to help you but have been unable to connect.   Please.

A very quick post but a very necessary one…please! Do not be intimidated by your attorney. As you go through the divorce process, there will be things that happen that will leave you uncertain. When that happens, please go with your gut. If your attorney dictates a specific time frame to get something accomplished, pay […]

The news just said that the people who will have the best chances for obtaining good jobs in 2012 are women! In fact, the women who will be the winners are the ones who used the recession to go to school or back to school and get better educations and degrees or certifications. So what […]