My parents were married for over 60 years and passed away married. So, do I have first hand experience as the child of divorce? Maybe not but I do know how a child feels when a parent leaves. I do know the fear that nothing will ever be the same. There was a time in […]
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- 09
Apr -
Author : Claudia Category : Divorce Coach, General
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I have written about this subject before and am writing about it again today. The reason is that I deal with divorce every day and I see very clearly the fact that losing perspective can mean losing everything. Think about it this way. If you get caught up in anger, vindictiveness, hurt, disillusionment and abandonment […]
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- 03
Apr -
Author : Claudia Category : General, Women's Strength
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So you are getting divorced, what is your mindset? Do you attempt to keep perspective and learn from your mistakes or do you continue to play the blame game? You are bitter if… You remain a victim. You don’t take responsibility for the happenings in your life. You continually badmouth the ex. You can’t get […]
Read moreI am talking about the words and actions of divorcing parents who inflict pain on their children unnecessarily. I am talking about parents who do all that they can do to alienate their children from the “other” parent. I am talking about the parents who – out and out – lie about the “other” parent. […]
Read moreWhen someone or something seems too good to be true, it usually it is. When you are in the throes of divorce, you are so very vulnerable! There are far too many people in the world that will take advantage of you so be alert. I can’t tell you how many stories I have heard […]
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Mar -
Author : Claudia Category : Divorce Coach, General
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Please don’t get so caught up in trying to “get back” at your soon to be ex-spouse in divorce court that you lose perspective. You must focus on the whole picture! Even if he was unfaithful or abusive, keep your perspective. Think about it this way: Let’s say you have $500,000.00 in assets. You have […]
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Mar -
Author : Claudia Category : Divorce Audio Guide to Success, Divorce Coach, General
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This has been a rather busy weekend. Well, actually more than busy. I have had more requests for divorce coaching this month than I have had in any past months. You will gain a better footing, if you follow these tips. Listen to your gut. When you see a red flag don’t ignore it. Understand […]
Read moreHave you ever noticed that some people argue and fight more than others? Have you ever noticed that some people seem to commit more easily than others? New studies show that there is actually a gene that has an effect on how people act in their relationships. In years past, it was found that men […]
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