My mother had a saying, “Get to getting.” What this meant to me as a youngster, was that I would be in in big trouble if I didn’t get started with whatever task she had assigned to me. What is means to me today is to get started at whatever task I need to carryout […]

Happy New Year my friends! Those of you who are regulars here, know that I suggest forgiving your soon to be ex-spouse or your ex-spouse. You may not be there yet but when you do get there it will have a calming effect on you. Some of you have told me that you are so […]

Part of the holiday season has come to an end but New Year’s Eve is still on the horizon. For many people this is an important celebration but for others it’s considered, “rookies night out.” Whatever the case is, remember that old ways of celebrating special days are not necessarily appropriate now. Speaking for myself, […]

This time of year can be filled with wonderful family traditions and celebrations. Often, that isn’t the case when divorce comes into play. As difficult as it may be for you, try to believe that you will get through this. Believe me when I say that you will be a better woman for it.  Divorce […]

Many of you are sharing your stories with me about the fact that you are not receiving the alimony and or child support payments that are owed to you. You are seeing that in many cases the system is failing you. Even though your divorce decree says one thing, the reality is very different. The […]