Category Archive: General

It’s Spring and Time for New Beginnings

I just received a call from someone who had wanted to call me for quite a while. After we talked for a few minutes and she filled me in on some of the things she had been experiencing, my heart broke. Anyone who has gone through the pain of divorce doesn’t forget how it feels. […]

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Is Love Blind or Just Dumb?

With what you know about marriage now, would you have done anything differently? For me, the answer is an easy one. I wish I had taken longer to get to know the man I was going to marry. In my case, I had known him only about ten months before we got married. The reality […]

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I Get Divorce and I Get Life After Divorce!

One of my kid’s friends asked me at dinner the other night, “So you are a woman’s divorce advocate, right?” I told him, “Well, not exactly. I don’t encourage nor do I promote divorce for women or anyone else for that matter.” He asked, “So then what is that you do with women who have […]

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Has Your Marriage Become A Battle Royal?

As most of you know, I do not advocate divorce except in the case of abuse. Marriages should be give and take and should have more hours filled with harmony than they have discord. Often, what I see on this site is that women hang on for years, hoping that things might change and their […]

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Blended Family Issues

Blended families are more the norm than ever with 65% of all marriages and remarriages having children by previous relationships. The process of blending families is a difficult. In most cases, blended families are nothing like the Brady Bunch. Before you jump into a blended family, take some time and plan. Give the kids time […]

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Dragging Your Feet Costs Money!

In an attempt to answer to a few recent questions, many states offer a choice as to how a divorce can be granted. There are no-fault divorces and fault based divorces. In most cases, a no fault divorce is cheaper because legal fees are less expensive. The number of billable hours required to go before […]

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3 Reasons For Seeking A Marriage Counselor

Good marriage counselors can be a solution to helping marriages get back on level ground. Poor marriage counselors can actually hurt any progress that couples might make in their efforts to mend their marriages. There are times when a poor marriage counselor will actually expedite divorce. When a marriage is volatile, some marriage counselors prefer […]

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Divorce and Perspective

This will be a very brief post my friends. We spent this afternoon at Shriners Hospital for Children in Philadelphia. As difficult as the pain of divorce is, seeing children of all ages with spinal cord injuries puts everything in perspective. These kids are accepting adversity and fighting valiantly. All I could think about today […]

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