Those of you who are regulars here, know that I do not advocate going to divorce court unless all else fails. If you do go to divorce court, your legal fees will be outrageous. Going to divorce court will be more stressful than anything you have ever experienced. That said, if you must go to […]

An email just came from a woman who was getting ready for her daughter’s wedding. She asked me what advice she should give her daughter before the big day. The question and my answer seemed appropriate to post since so many of you who have gone through the divorce process are thinking about remarriage. Suzanne, […]

A conversation I had today made me realize that I should write another post about the importance of obtaining a post-nup or a post nuptial agreement. If you are considering quitting your job to be a stay at home mom, please get your husband to agree to a post-nup before you quit. If you are […]

This is going to be a short post but an extremely important one.  I continue to hear about how information shared on social media and in particular Facebook is being used as evidence in divorce courts. I was just told about the huge mistakes some women are making by talking to virtual strangers about their […]

There is such a fine line when the divorce process begins as to when and how you should tip your hand. On one hand, you need to take precautions to protect yourself financially. Taking precautions to protect yourself financially, can trip an alarm for your husband. When that alarm goes off, he will understand that […]