My previous post spoke about the need to forgive your ex in order to move on with your life. If you admit that you made a mistake in marrying the wrong person in the first place, it is a valuable first step for so many reasons. Why does admitting that mistake help? Admitting that first […]

At some point during the divorce process, you need to consciously decide that it’s time to move on with your life. The sooner you can do this, the better you will fare. The worst scenario for a couple to experience during the divorce process is divorce court. Divorce court is often the villain that prevents […]

Divorce comes in to play in all walks of life and with all income levels. If you and your spouse do not have complicated income and asset issues, this post probably will not be of interest to you. If your financial situation is more complex than most and there are monetary questions that need to […]

How long do you want to remain in Limbo? No woman wants to experience the end of a marriage. No woman wants to be alone. No woman wants her children experience the loss of an intact family. BUT… What is important to understand is that when something, including marriage is over, you need to accept […]

So many of you are having difficulty in selecting attorneys and that is so understandable. The reason is because, like in all professions, there are good attorneys and bad attorneys. There are ethical attorneys and unethical attorneys. This is why it is so important to interview different attorneys. You need to listen to what they […]

I heard someone use a word today that I never heard before. The word was “misremembered.”  I have heard misinformed, misspoke, misunderstood, mistaken etc. I just never heard the word “misremembered” and it is a fantastic word. People interpret situations and events differently according to their individual perspectives, experiences and maturity. People often have erroneous […]

Timing is everything, including on Valentine’s Day. You have something on your mind and plan to talk with your husband when he comes home from work. Don’t do it! Don’t bring up a difficult subject the minute he comes home. Why? The reason is that people are not capable of appropriate actions or reactions when […]