As promised, this is part of the email sent to me by the woman I met in the grocery store. Dear Claudia, Thank you for helping me put the bag of dog food in my cart. I was crying because my husband of 12 years has filed for divorce and has demanded that he keep […]

I found myself in the dog food aisle of a store yesterday and as I lingered to compare the ingredients on various brands, I heard a woman crying. I looked up and saw her holding on to her cart, attempting to put a huge bag of dog food into it. Clearly, she was struggling and […]

The blame game seems to be the most popular of all of the divorce games and I don’t recommend it. The reality is that there must be damage control by both parents in order to save the children from more fallout than has already headed their way thanks to your divorce. So, since you are […]

Most of us want people to think we are great, attractive, intelligent, fun, capable and successful. The “Oops Factor” comes into play when we focus so much on presenting ourselves as women who possess these characteristics that we lose perspective on who we really are. Add internet dating and the “Oops Factor” can increase to […]

These questions pertain to you or your spouse. The effect on the other is the same. 1. Do you show a lack of respect for your spouse? Do you treat strangers better than you treat your spouse? Are you appreciative for the efforts of your spouse? Do you talk about your spouse positively or negatively? […]

I just received this note and I can’t tell you how happy it made me. I couldn’t have received a better gift than this to begin the new year. This is from a military wife who hit rock bottom about nine months ago. Look at her now! I am sure she will be an inspiration […]

Is your marriage in trouble? So many women are surprised when they are served with divorce papers. You will save yourself the pain and heartache of this horrific surprise if you look out for these five warning signs: 1. Your spouse is working longer hours than usual. 2. Your spouse has changed his appearance. (An […]