It seems like a lot of people are on missions to gain members of the divorcee club. Please, if you take anything from this site and from me, make your own decisions regarding your marriage. Those of you who are regulars here know that I have said this before. With the exception of abuse that […]

Probably the question that I get the most is, “Why aren’t you angry because of the issues that occurred because of your divorce?” My answer is a bit complex because like everyone in the world, I have experienced anger but lucky for me, the emotion has been fleeting and for the most part very mild. […]

I want to quote a post from a friend’s site today. The site is http://www.JimsMarketingBlog.com and his name is Jim Connolly. Jim is a marketing man and does not deal with divorce but his message is so universal that I wanted to share it. You! You should focus on what’s important to you, not that […]

Wow! I am being inundated with emails from women who have had it and are ready to take the divorce plunge. I guess the economy and the holidays have worn everyone pretty thin. This post may seem to go in a lot of different directions and it actually is. The reason is that I am […]

As is always the case in life, people need to try to see both sides of a situation if they want a clear understanding. The same holds true when approaching an attorney to see if he or she might be the one you  retain for your divorce. If you have been on this site before, […]

So, there are only “two more go to sleeps and two more wake ups” until the holidays have come to an end…this time. You can cut the tension with a knife. You and your husband have tried to be civil for the sake of the kids and the family and friends but your stress level […]

Social Media can be amazing and can produce results and connect you with like minded people and people with whom you have lost touch. There are more middle aged people using social media than I would have ever imagined. Sure, a lot of them are filling voids in their lives and spend a tremendous amount […]

If I can share one thought and offer one gift to you this New Year’s Eve, it is the knowledge that 2011 can be just like the dawning of a new day. The experience of divorce is devastating but whatever feelings of sadness, loneliness, fear, guilt or abandonment you are experiencing, your life will get […]