Category Archive: General

It’s Not What You Think!

One of my newest clients called me yesterday afternoon and it wasn’t her scheduled appointment time. When I saw the caller ID, I knew something was wrong and luckily I had some time. She has given me permission to share her story. Basically, she had been emotionally, verbally, and financially abused by her husband for […]

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Divorce Begins with D… Duh!

D is for DIVORCE so remember the six “D’s!” Decision making Determining Doing Detailing Documenting Dedicating

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Valentine’s Day Vulnerabilities

You are going through a rough time right now and you are so vulnerable. You would not be on this site if that were not the case. You are thinking about the good times with your soon to be ex-husband. You are remembering how he used to be. You want to feel less lonely and […]

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You Are The Light at The End of The Tunnel!

To see the light at the end of the tunnel, you must keep your eyes open! That means to you need to pay attention to all of the signals. You can’t afford to ignore what your “gut” is telling you.

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Divorce Is A Worthwhile Struggle

In light of my new blog design, I am posting a copy of something that was sent to me a few years ago. I believe that it is really worth sharing! A Butterfly Must Struggle if It Is to Fly A man found a cocoon for a butterfly. One day a small opening appeared, he […]

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Divorce Can Give You Flight

The only way that you can evolve is if you think positively and keep perspective through the divorce process. Divorce isn’t easy. Life isn’t easy. Think about it. Your marriage may be over but your life isn’t. You may hurt now but you won’t always be in pain. You may have lost friends but you […]

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Once a Cheater – Always a Cheater!

Closing Your Eyes Won’t Make Her Go Away! One of the most difficult parts of my coaching is when I hear clients tell me that they didn’t have any idea that their spouses were cheating. Here is the thing; the signs were there but for whatever reason, they were ignored. Red flags: They cheated before. […]

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Has Your Husband Become Sir GalaBAD?

If you are married to a narcissist, chances are that you are feeling frustrated, like a failure and uncertain as to what really happened to your marriage. You might not understand how your Knight in Shining Armor could have become Sir GalaBAD. You need to understand that narcissists are talented in their ability to demean […]

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