Category Archive: General

Divorcing Your Finances

Today, Gary Foreman has shared a post directed at finances and divorce. Separating Financial Affairs After Divorce by Gary Foreman Divorce not only dissolves a marriage, it also separates your finances. At least it should. But, all too often the process of divorce leaves finances hopelessly tangled. Consider this recent email: I am getting a […]

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Thanksgiving Recipe

Put a sock in it…not the turkey…your mouth! No matter how difficult it is to keep your mouth shut about your ex this Thanksgiving holiday season, just do it! Life is too short to try to build yourself up by tearing him down. I’m not suggesting that he doesn’t deserve it, just that you don’t […]

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Power of Attorney

If you are contemplating divorce or are in the middle of one, you need to put this on the top of your priorities list. Right after the Thanksgiving Holiday, assign a new Power Of Attorney and a new Health Care Surrogate. If your soon to be ex is your current Power Of Attorney and  Health […]

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Divorce Coach

What is a divorce coach? Do I need one? Why do I need one? There are different answers to these questions depending on who is giving the answers. In terms of my coaching,  I do the following: I advise you if your situation does not warrant a divorce coach and refund your money immediately. I […]

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Your Thinking Cap

There are some things that you must remember as you wade through the quagmire of divorce. You must keep informed and realistic as you go through the steps. Make sure to spend quality time with your children on a daily basis. Make rational decisions regarding your children’s welfare. Be realistic about whether or not you […]

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Divorce: Gaps In Your Resume

You are in the process of divorce and realize that you need to get a job outside of the home that pays money. Education and experience count for a lot when applying for a job. So, if you have been a stay at home mom and are in the process of trying to find a […]

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Do I Need A Psychologist?

During my divorce coaching sessions, the question is often asked, “How do I know if I should see a psychologist or if my kids should?” The answer is not a difficult one to answer but you must understand the difference between sadness and depression.  Divorce is a sad time for all involved including the children […]

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To Have and To Hold…

This is a divorce site to help women but I must add that I believe in the sanctity of the marriage bond. Divorce was not my choice but it is what it is and we must all make the most of what life deals us. If there is any hope that your marriage might be […]

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