Before the divorce rate began its unbelievable rise in the 1960s, almost everyone said that divorce was a problem especially when it comes to the children. Uh…yes! Then in the 1980’s, one in two marriages ended in divorce!  So then the experts said that the important part of the process was how the children were […]

Today’s blog is going to be a bit different. I have received a lot of emails from women…and men 😉 who have commented about other sites dealing with the subject of divorce. I would welcome more input from you if you have a few minutes to email me or comment. Basically, I am looking for […]

In divorce cases, child support payments are often part of the divorce decree. Depending on the state where you reside, there are guidelines that are usually followed. The court will decide an appropriate number that one parent, usually the non custodial parent will pay the custodial parent to assist in the cost of raising the […]

Divorce and Depression So your marriage has ended or is in the process of ending, what now? With divorce comes sadness. Period! For so many reasons, this is true. Even if you are the one who initiated the divorce, you will feel lousy. Why? There are many reasons but for starters: You feel like a […]

Someone just sent me this email and gave me permission to quote her. It just makes me so angry to see how some parents can’t put their kids needs before their own anger, resentment, ego and I could go on and on but I won’t! Claudia, I am at such a loss. I don’t know […]

Many of you have emailed me and asked, “At what point should I think about a divorce coach?” Well, that’s an easy question to answer. If the divorce world were perfect, you would not need a divorce coach. Period! Since the world isn’t perfect, you are the only one who can answer the question regarding […]

Today’s post is brief but very necessary and of the utmost importance. The grounds for divorce depend on the sate where you live with very few exceptions. Basically the grounds are the reasons that a divorce petition is filed. Many states grant divorces with no fault which means that there are irreconcilable differences with the […]

The day that changed my life happened like this: I was in the car, in a traffic jam. My cell phone rang and it was a friend who had one of my horses. (I had spoken to her the day before and she had advised me that she had found the perfect buyer for Molly. […]