Category Archive: General

The Key Is To Believe And Do!

I must say, thank you to so many of you. I have gotten quite a few questions regarding how I stay so positive. I will tell all of you that I have not always been that way. My experiences have taught me that the more positive I am, the more positive, I become! Positive thinking […]

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Teaching a child the real meaning…

I received and email from a mom that gave me so much hope. In today’s world when so many children are being raised with the propensity to feel an entitlement, this mom’s attitude was refreshing. Hopefully her daughter will live her own life with a giving heart, just like her mom’s. She has given me […]

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“Your Retainer Is…How Much?”

When you are ready or not ready, to enter the divorce process, you probably will have to pay your attorney, a retainer. If you need to change attorneys midstream, you probably will have to pay another retainer. How much is a retainer and where does the money come from? The answer varies with the attorney. […]

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Is he cheating? Why? What should I do?

Is he cheating? Why is he cheating? What do I want to do about it? I am beginning to get jaded because of all of the moms who are asking questions or telling about their experiences with cheating spouses. I have come to the conclusion that the above questions must be asked and each mom […]

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A Thanksgiving to remember…

Sorry all, but I just had to share this Thanksgiving dinner story. My ex mother in law wanted to cook the dinner herself. To say that she wasn’t  much of a cook was an understatement. This is the truth, honest! I know because I watched her! She took the turkey and put it in the […]

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Dancing away from an interview…

Some of you SAHMs have asked what you can do to protect your futures, without upsetting your spouses. First, I must answer with a question, “If your spouse loves you and cares about you, why would protecting your future, in case of tragedy or divorce, upset him?” Having said that, I will offer a suggestion. […]

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A wounded child tells…

The following, is a comment from a victim of divorce. It is a plea from a child, to all parents, who unknowingly or knowingly, have crushed their children’s spirits, by bad mouthing their ex-spouses. She is begging parents, to realize that children love both of their parents. She is making a plea, for all children’s […]

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A mother’s guilt…

Why is it that, along with motherhood comes,guilthood? If a mom files for divorce, she feels guilty. If she doesn’t file, she feels guilty. If she tries to keep the marriage together, she feels guilty. If her husband is a philanderer, the mom feels guilty. If the children act out, she feels guilty. If she […]

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