If you have any upcoming meetings with your soon to be ex-husband, you might need a heads up. Some men (and women) find it entertaining to add yet one more barb to the divorce process. In an effort to get you unglued, they bring the other woman to the meeting. Even if she can’t go […]

For the purpose of this post, I am writing about the assets that have been in the marital home. Dividing property during the divorce process can be extremely challenging and heart wrenching. It’s so important that the soon to be ex spouses act in mature and respectful ways even when the divorce is contentious. The […]

Today has been a very busy day and one which has been a bit upsetting for me. When a couple decides to have children, they should think and prepare for the way they will care for, teach and love their children. The children arrive and at some point so can divorce! I just don’t understand […]

Many of you prefer to connect with me via email prior to making the first call. That’s fine and I want this process to be as easy as possible for you. I am happy to answer a brief email from you if that makes you feel more confident before we talk. Any questions you have […]

Princes are just people who happened to be born of royalty. When princes don’t keep their vows, the result is the same as for non royals – divorce. I have always had a special feeling for Prince William because his mother and I were expecting our first born sons at the same time. Prince William […]

When divorce breaks families apart, everyone is hurt. It is especially heartbreaking when one spouse is still in love with the other. What I see happening time and time again is that spouses who are still in love, experience more sorrow.  They go through the same stages of grief that that people experiencing death go […]

What are the ingredients for happiness? Have you ever heard people make comments like these or have you ever made these comments? If only I lost weight, I’d be happy. If only I had a significant other, I’d be happy. If only I looked younger, I’d be happy. If only I had more money, I’d […]

Today’s post is about feelings, something that we girls understand only too well. I have experienced a new year that is filled with so many bittersweet emotions. The bitter part of what I am feeling is due to my witnessing the continued victimization of women as they endure divorce. They are being hurt, cheated and […]