Category Archive: Women’s Strength

Once a Cheater – Always a Cheater!

Closing Your Eyes Won’t Make Her Go Away! One of the most difficult parts of my coaching is when I hear clients tell me that they didn’t have any idea that their spouses were cheating. Here is the thing; the signs were there but for whatever reason, they were ignored. Red flags: They cheated before. […]

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Divorce: Be Patient with Your Children

One of the best pieces of advice that I received when I was going through the divorce process was, “Be patient. Don’t stoop to his level by alienating them from him. Then wait. At some point, they will understand what really happened.” I’ll add a few other suggestions… P    Pay attention to them. A   Ask […]

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Who Are You?

Do you know who you are? I mean who you really are? Think about it. Sure, you might be a mom or a daughter or a sister or a friend but that those things don’t define who you are. When you think about who you are, you need to think about only you. Forget thinking […]

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Finances: When The Only Way Is Up

So many stay at home moms who are going through divorce have appalling financial issues. Too often, their funds are cut off during the process and they are unable to find jobs because they have young children. In addition, many are unable to find jobs in the current economy. When you think that there is […]

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Verbal Abuse Is Passed on to The Children

Many times women  are so close to situations that they are incapable of having or maintaining perspective. In fact, they are incapable of being objective regarding their own lives. Often, women miss what is actually happening around them because they are so “used to it.” As an example, think of a mother whose husband speaks […]

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The Moral of the Divorce Story

I ran into an old friend over the weekend and found out that she was divorced. The last time I had seen her, she told me about her eminent divorce and how she had hired a great divorce attorney. At the time, everything she said about him, sounded good. I remember thinking that she was […]

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Divorce Support: 24 – 7

When I first began this blog, I had no idea how many women were suffering through the divorce process. I had no idea how many women were vulnerable in the same way that I was. I had no idea how many women would seek my help as a divorce coach. Please email me with questions […]

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Save The Children Ranks Best Places To Be A Mom: US #25

Moms, as Mother’s Day approaches, I feel the need to share this with you. It is off the topic of divorce but not off topic regarding being a mom in the United States. The Save The Children foundation released their thirteenth annual ranking of the best and worst places to be a mom in the […]

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