Category Archive: Women’s Strength

Divorce: Not The Child’s Fault

Missing in action and I am so sorry! Today’s post will be short but extremely important. I know how so many of you are impatient and a bit disbelieving that your children will return to you. Divorce breaks so many hearts. It breaks your heart and it breaks your children’s hearts. The part that you […]

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Bitter or Better after Divorce?

So you are getting divorced, what is your mindset? Do you attempt to keep perspective and learn from your mistakes or do you continue to play the blame game? You are bitter if… You remain a victim. You don’t take responsibility for the happenings in your life. You continually badmouth the ex. You can’t get […]

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Look Before You Leap

A new client of mine said something this morning that really made me think. It’s not that I haven’t heard it before. It’s that I never heard it the way that she said it. She said, “I want no part of two of my daughters because they look just like their father and he is […]

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In Wine There Is Truth

There is a Latin phrase which is “In vino veritas.” It is translated into “In wine there is truth.”  On that note,  I realize that quite a lot of the first calls that my clients make to me are in the evening. I’m pretty sure that quite a few of these calls are precipitated by […]

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Help Wanted

One of my calls today was from someone who had just gotten a phenomenal job after having been out of work for sixteen months. She kept saying that she had gotten the job because she hadn’t given up. No matter what people told her, she said she kept trying and finally it paid off. I […]

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Do You Have What It Takes?

As you watch and feel your marriage coming to an end, there are many emotions that take over. I understand so well the feelings of failure, fear and sadness. How could there be anything other than those feelings? Here’s the part that I need to share with you because focusing on things like this will […]

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Divorce and Manamony

It seems like things can’t get much worse for women going through divorce and then something else comes into play. I have warned you that you need to prepare for all of the possible events that might occur during the divorce process. I have been remiss because I have not detailed the possibilities of what […]

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Divorce and The New Year

To each and every one of you, my best wishes for an amazing 2012! As difficult as it may be for you to believe, life can and will get better. I have been through what you are going through, so I really get how sad and broken you feel. The part of the process that […]

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