Dads and Kids and Divorce

This post is going to go in a slightly different direction. So many of you are in the divorce process and have connected with a new man who has children and you are not sure as to what your role should be.

You need to understand that if the man you are seeing has kids, you need to take a step back and see what is happening. Kids hate divorce. They want their parents to get back together so that their family will become whole again.

So, your new man has kids and you need to understand and deal. The most important thing that you can do for your man and your relationship is to support his relationship with his kids even if that means that temporarily you are not part of the picture.

If you really care about him, you will care about the relationship that he has with his kids. If you don’t really care about him, then sabotage his relationship with his kids. Time will tell and the kids will tell. It’s your choice.

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