Ladies, please be informed before you go to court. Don’t assume that what is fair will happen. Please don’t assume that because you were a good and loyal wife that you will win or even come out even in divorce court. You need to hedge your bets, prepare for the worst and above all, have all of your ducks in a row. If you have a bad feeling about your attorney or your situation, you are probably right. Do something. Go with your gut! Change whatever you need to change. This is about your life and your future.