How To Use The Divorce Boomerang Effectively

If you have any upcoming meetings with your soon to be ex-husband, you might need a heads up. Some men (and women) find it entertaining to add yet one more barb to the divorce process.

In an effort to get you unglued, they bring the other woman to the meeting. Even if she can’t go to the actual meeting, she can sit in the waiting area for you to see. Sometimes they make their appearance in the parking lot as you are getting out of your car.

This is cruel and sadly it happens a lot. You walk in and see your husband with her and you become unglued. It is so difficult to regain your composure and this is exactly what they wanted to have happen.

Prepare yourself in advance for the possibility that she might be there. That way, you won’t be surprised and will be able to stay cool, calm and collected! If you can manage a smile and courteous, “Hello” so much the better.

It’s interesting how the boomerang will go right back to them because you were unaffected by seeing them there together. I have dubbed this the “Divorce Boomerang.”

Trust me. When you are courteous and try to do the right thing, you are the winner in any situation. One of the best ways to keep your cool is to prepare yourself with a plan and focus on it when you are passively attacked.

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