Irene is on her way and I can’t help but make an analogy between a hurricane and a divorce. That might seem like an unlikely comparison but it really isn’t and this is the reason. Both hurricanes and divorces can take unexpected directions, vary in strength and without proper preparation, both can leave devastation in their wakes.
The key to both is preparation, preparation, preparation and more preparation. Sure, it’s very possible that the preparation might be seen as a waste of time if the worst doesn’t happen.
A home that has had its windows covered with hurricane shutters is protected if the hurricane hits hard. A woman who has been prepared for the worst in her divorce is less likely to be devastated if and when the worst happens.
I understand hurricanes only too well having lived in Miami as long as I did. I understand divorces only too well having helped hundreds of women deal with divorce as long as I have.
There is a term called, the calm before the storm and with regard to a hurricane, it can be very eerie. The problem with the calm before the storm with divorce is that it is not eerie. It actually can be comforting because it gives a false sense of security.
Think about it this way:
Be diligent during the Calm Before The Storm and become informed. Preparation gives better chances for less remorse with your divorce.
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