Author : Claudia Category : Divorce Coach, General
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During your marriage, you both had friends…hopefully. As you progress down the road toward divorce, don’t turn away from your friends. By the same token, don’t assume that friends you had together will still be your friends after divorce. And don’t assume that they won’t pick sides or that they will pick your side. The […]
Read moreMoms, this is going to be a short post. I am absolutely heartsick over one of my coaching calls today. I have said this before and I must say it again! Put your children first!!! Did you know that stepfathers and boyfriends place your children, especially daughters at an unbelievably higher risk for sexual and […]
Read moreAs a Divorce Coach, there are certain subjects that seem to be a large part of my coaching calls. Even though everyone’s divorce is different and everyone’s situation is different, many things are similar. Three Important Aspects A. Abuse comes in many forms. It can be physical, emotional or financial. It can be a combination […]
Read moreMy parents were married for over 60 years and passed away married. So, do I have first hand experience as the child of divorce? Maybe not but I do know how a child feels when a parent leaves. I do know the fear that nothing will ever be the same. There was a time in […]
Read moreAuthor : Claudia Category : Divorce Coach, General
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I have written about this subject before and am writing about it again today. The reason is that I deal with divorce every day and I see very clearly the fact that losing perspective can mean losing everything. Think about it this way. If you get caught up in anger, vindictiveness, hurt, disillusionment and abandonment […]
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So you are getting divorced, what is your mindset? Do you attempt to keep perspective and learn from your mistakes or do you continue to play the blame game? You are bitter if… You remain a victim. You don’t take responsibility for the happenings in your life. You continually badmouth the ex. You can’t get […]
Read moreI am talking about the words and actions of divorcing parents who inflict pain on their children unnecessarily. I am talking about parents who do all that they can do to alienate their children from the “other” parent. I am talking about the parents who – out and out – lie about the “other” parent. […]
Read moreWhen someone or something seems too good to be true, it usually it is. When you are in the throes of divorce, you are so very vulnerable! There are far too many people in the world that will take advantage of you so be alert. I can’t tell you how many stories I have heard […]
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