Keep Perspective Or Lose!

Please don’t get so caught up in trying to “get back” at your soon to be ex-spouse in divorce court that you lose perspective. You must focus on the whole picture! Even if he was unfaithful or abusive, keep your perspective. Think about it this way: Let’s say you have $500,000.00 in assets. You have […]

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Divorce Tips

This has been a rather busy weekend. Well, actually more than busy. I have had more requests for divorce coaching this month than I have had in any past months. You will gain a better footing,  if you follow these tips. Listen to your gut. When you see a red flag don’t ignore it. Understand […]

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Divorce Genes

Have you ever noticed that some people argue and fight more than others? Have you ever noticed that some people seem to commit more easily than others? New studies show that there is actually a gene that has an effect on how people act in their relationships. In years past, it was found that men […]

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6 Characteristics of Narcissists

When women ask me how they should prepare for divorce, I begin by suggesting that they read about divorce laws in their states. At some point, I often suggest that they research reputable sites such as Psychology Today so that they might better understand the possible reasons for the actions of their ex-husbands or soon […]

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Leave Another Message!

I received a call the other day from a woman in Pennsylvania, needing my help. I wrote down her number incorrectly. Please, if you are that woman, call me again. I would like to help you but have been unable to connect.   Please.

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Look Before You Leap

A new client of mine said something this morning that really made me think. It’s not that I haven’t heard it before. It’s that I never heard it the way that she said it. She said, “I want no part of two of my daughters because they look just like their father and he is […]

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The Danger of Webcams

Divorce was complicated before technology became so much a part of our lives. Now, it seems as though complicated has become an understatement. Technology adds danger to the scenario. Several of my newest clients are dealing with the wrath of soon to be ex-spouses who have used technology in their divorce strategies. Without going into […]

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Whitney Houston: A Tribute

Whitney’s voice  has been there for so many moments in my life. She will missed but I am certain that her voice will live on. Her power, her sensitivity, and her kindness will echo in my heart and soul forever.  You Light Up My Life was the first dance at my wedding but hearing her […]

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