For Richer or Poorer?

The current jobless rate is affecting the divorce rate but not necessarily in the way that you might think. We all remember the part of our vows when we said, “…for richer or poorer.” Ohio State has recently published a study that links male joblessness with marital problems. Previous surveys that had been done found […]

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Divorce: Save Your Children!

As is often the case, I just read four emails from women I am coaching. In the subject lines were, “Help! Help Urgent! Urgent help needed! I need your help right away!” When I see messages like these, I go into action to support these women and offer them my guidance. If could help each […]

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When Divorce Is Over – Let It Be Over!

So you and your husband are on the path to divorce. One or both of you have made the decision to end your marriage. You might be anyplace on the divorce timeline and you might actually have the divorce behind you. Your marriage has ended but your family hasn’t ended if you have kids. At […]

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Divorce: No Comment!

Because of the sensitive nature of the subject matter on this site, I have decided to disable comments. I understand only too well that you are concerned about the possibility that anything could be traced back to you. I want you to have the utmost confidence that I understand and respect your need for absolute […]

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Make The Call and Feel Better

It has come to my attention that some important emails from you have landed in my spam folder and I never saw them. A couple of requests please. If you write to me and I don’t get back to you within about twelve hours, it means that I didn’t get your email. I want to […]

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Divorce: Don’t Be A Deer In Headlights

Divorce is sad, no matter who is involved. It goes without saying that a failed marriage is due to the actions of both parties. There are men who are at fault and there are women who are at fault. I certainly do not presume that women are squeaky clean. That said, I do believe and […]

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Divorce: How to Survive

There are so many women who know that their marriages are over but they don’t want to be the ones to file for divorce. They remain in a holding pattern, much like a plane that can’t land for some reason. Some have said that they don’t want to be the one to file because they […]

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Were You Given Away or Thrown Away?

Did you leave him or were you the one left behind? Some of you may question, “What’s the difference? Either way, the marriage is over!” My answer to you is that it is very different. In fact, one of the most difficult parts of divorce is when a woman is still in love with her […]

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