Divorce and Family Gatherings

As Easter and other holidays approach, please remember that you and your spouse are divorced or divorcing. Your children did not cause the break up and if you love them, you will keep them out of the crossfire. When family times involve divorce, the tension can be difficult to endure. Remember that as problematic as […]

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Your Future Depends on Facing the Facts

More and more, divorce is coming into play after a couple has been married for more than 20 years. That may seem odd unless it happens to you. A “gazillion” years ago, a friend’s mother filed for divorce the day her younger sister graduated from high school. She was shocked because her parents had been […]

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I am Divorced. Now What?

That’s a loaded question and I hear it a lot. It seems like more and more, my new clients have come to me in the middle or toward the end of their divorce processes. Many or probably most of them are extremely vulnerable. It’s hard to believe but sometimes, life can be more difficult when […]

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Is The Wife Really The Last to Know?

We have all heard, “The wife is the last one know.” I don’t think that is necessarily true. I can’t tell you how often women ask me the question, “Why didn’t I see the signs that he was cheating?” The reasons for the question vary but they all seem to go back to the same […]

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Rape Is Rape!

I just got off of a coaching call that ripped at my heart. The woman told me that I can share her story because she hopes that it might help other women. Background: Shelly (not her real name) has been married for nine years and wants to file for divorce but is not sure that […]

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If You Stay, Your Past Will Be Your Future

There is no crystal ball needed. To gain perspective for your own situation, you must answer the questions. I can help you but ultimately, you must figure things out for yourself. I have shared answers. Please replace them with your own. THE BROKEN HEART QUIZ CAN SHOW YOUR FUTURE When you first met this person, what […]

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Valentine’s Day Broken Heart Quiz

Today is a very difficult day for anyone who is without a significant other. It is even more difficult for those who have recently lost a love or have a marriage that has ended. So, for those of you who have a relationship that has broken, this quiz just might give perspective and might even […]

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Stay at Home Moms’ Job Security

This is a post I wrote in 2007, I believe the message is poignant and very appropriate to be shared in 2013. Recently, a friend asked me to look at a copy of the local newspaper section on jobs. As I was going through the ads, one heading really hit home. The question was asked, […]

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