These questions pertain to you or your spouse. The effect on the other is the same. 1. Do you show a lack of respect for your spouse? Do you treat strangers better than you treat your spouse? Are you appreciative for the efforts of your spouse? Do you talk about your spouse positively or negatively? […]

I just received this note and I can’t tell you how happy it made me. I couldn’t have received a better gift than this to begin the new year. This is from a military wife who hit rock bottom about nine months ago. Look at her now! I am sure she will be an inspiration […]

Is your marriage in trouble? So many women are surprised when they are served with divorce papers. You will save yourself the pain and heartache of this horrific surprise if you look out for these five warning signs: 1. Your spouse is working longer hours than usual. 2. Your spouse has changed his appearance. (An […]

It seems like a lot of people are on missions to gain members of the divorcee club. Please, if you take anything from this site and from me, make your own decisions regarding your marriage. Those of you who are regulars here know that I have said this before. With the exception of abuse that […]

Probably the question that I get the most is, “Why aren’t you angry because of the issues that occurred because of your divorce?” My answer is a bit complex because like everyone in the world, I have experienced anger but lucky for me, the emotion has been fleeting and for the most part very mild. […]

I want to quote a post from a friend’s site today. The site is http://www.JimsMarketingBlog.com and his name is Jim Connolly. Jim is a marketing man and does not deal with divorce but his message is so universal that I wanted to share it. You! You should focus on what’s important to you, not that […]

Wow! I am being inundated with emails from women who have had it and are ready to take the divorce plunge. I guess the economy and the holidays have worn everyone pretty thin. This post may seem to go in a lot of different directions and it actually is. The reason is that I am […]

As is always the case in life, people need to try to see both sides of a situation if they want a clear understanding. The same holds true when approaching an attorney to see if he or she might be the one you  retain for your divorce. If you have been on this site before, […]