Moms, you are sad because your marriage is over. Here’s the thing. Whatever issues your soon to be ex and you have, do this the right way. It will set the tone for the entire divorce process for your children. After you both have made the divorce decision and it’s time to tell the kids, […]

If you are in the middle of a marriage on the way to divorce, please try to keep your children from being casualties. It isn’t their fault. A failing marriage is between the two of you. Sure, everyone makes mistakes in the raising of children. When spouses are involved in a volatile relationship, it’s easy […]

I just commented on an article in the New York Times called Other People’s Divorces by Judith Newman. I would really appreciate your input. Please email me with your opinions or make a comment here. People like to be privy to the drama of other people’s marriages and breakups. For that reason we know why […]

Today, Gary Foreman has shared a post directed at finances and divorce. Separating Financial Affairs After Divorce by Gary Foreman Divorce not only dissolves a marriage, it also separates your finances. At least it should. But, all too often the process of divorce leaves finances hopelessly tangled. Consider this recent email: I am getting a […]

Put a sock in it…not the turkey…your mouth! No matter how difficult it is to keep your mouth shut about your ex this Thanksgiving holiday season, just do it! Life is too short to try to build yourself up by tearing him down. I’m not suggesting that he doesn’t deserve it, just that you don’t […]

If you are contemplating divorce or are in the middle of one, you need to put this on the top of your priorities list. Right after the Thanksgiving Holiday, assign a new Power Of Attorney and a new Health Care Surrogate. If your soon to be ex is your current Power Of Attorney and  Health […]

What is a divorce coach? Do I need one? Why do I need one? There are different answers to these questions depending on who is giving the answers. In terms of my coaching,  I do the following: I advise you if your situation does not warrant a divorce coach and refund your money immediately. I […]

There are some things that you must remember as you wade through the quagmire of divorce. You must keep informed and realistic as you go through the steps. Make sure to spend quality time with your children on a daily basis. Make rational decisions regarding your children’s welfare. Be realistic about whether or not you […]