If I can give you only one “word to the wise,” it is that your children are being hurt by your divorce. There are no exceptions and no “maybes.” They are being hurt and that fact is plain and simple. I have said this before and I’m sure I’ll say it many more times, please […]

I always wonder how so many men end up on this site since it is dedicated to helping women through the divorce process. Obviously, there are men who end up on the losing side of divorce and I welcome all input from anyone who has experienced the divorce process. The one thing that I have […]

I receive so many emails from women attempting to find out how they can save money during the divorce process. In this economy and in any economy, money is poured down the drain during the divorce process. The most expensive part of divorce is usually attorney’s fees. It is clear that most divorces require legal […]

Divorce: When the writing is in the wall There comes a point in a marriage or relationship when you have to face the facts. This is an example of some of the emails I receive from women who are totally in denial regarding a potential divorce. The Facts: “He doesn’t speak to me at all […]

Your Feedback on divorce please! For those of you who have lived through any part of the divorce process, what is the single most important thing that you learned? I know for me it was be very careful about who you trust. I’d really appreciate your feedback, either by email, anonymous comment or any way […]

The military and problem marriages seem to go hand in hand. Our soldiers…both men and women…suffer terribly in the wars that we are fighting today. Unlike the world wars that occurred in history, these wars are different because there is not a united front at home. There is not a united front that supports, cares […]

The saddest thing about divorce is the fact that the children are hurt so terribly when bitterness, anger and desire to hurt the ex-spouse come into play. I receive countless emails from women who are devastated because of the pain that has been inflicted on their children. There are so many places and people out […]

This will be a very short post but a very important one. Did you know that indecision can cause a great deal of stress? If you find yourself in that uncertain mode at any point in your divorce, I have a suggestion. Take out a pen and paper and make two columns.  You really do […]