As we are all awaiting the arrival of the New Year, many of us are feeling alone and afraid because of the ravages that divorce has played on us and on our families and children. As mothers, we don’t understand how the children can ever question our love or loyalty to them. We remember sleepless […]

…Who looks the oldest of them all? While in the grocery store, I heard a woman tell her friend that, “It’s a proven fact that divorced women look older.” I had to laugh to myself for two opposing reasons. First, I wondered where and who proved that her statement was indeed a fact. Second, I […]

Only you can give yourself the chance to survive, begin again, succeed and be happy! It is your choice. Which way do you want to go? Which road do you want to follow? Only you can decide. Please ask yourselves these questions: Is there anything I can do to change my circumstance? Can I help […]

The Daily News printed an article today by Gina Salamone. The article stated that,Nearly one in five divorce cases cite Facebook, lawyers say. The article quoted Mark Keenan, who is the Managing Director of Divorce-Online as saying, I had heard from my staff that there were a lot of people saying they had found out […]

Obviously since you are on this site, you or someone you care about is someplace in the divorce process. This is the time of year that plays havoc on the women and children who are living through divorce. You may have initiated the divorce or you may have had the divorce papers served on you. […]

I just received two emails. One was from a woman who has finished the divorce process and is now dealing with the fallout. The other was from a woman who was in the middle of the divorce process when she lost her attorney. Very similar to what happened to me, she now needs to find […]

Some of you say that you feel like failures. You are afraid that people are laughing at you. You are sure that everybody is against you. You say that there is no hope. You are afraid. OK ladies, here is your wake up call! You need to end the pity parties! It’s time to move […]

Please don’t say a driver or a five iron! Lions and Tigers and bears…oh my! We can’t see the forest for the Woods…sorry…I couldn’t resist! Okay so now you are separated or divorced. I think the biggest wedge is opposing and differing expectations. Remember that most peoples’ emotions will be worn on their sleeves during […]