Some of you may remember an article that I wrote a couple of years ago regarding my belief that Philadelphia is truly The City of Brotherly Love. What a contrast compared to the current news in Huntington Valley, a Philadelphia Suburb. I am absolutely appalled by the actions of The Valley Swim Club. Apparently, The […]

Do you see yourself as being in the process of the decision part of your divorce? If you say yes, that means you already see this as a process, a journey through and around some obstacles but a manageable process nonetheless, in which you have some control and are not a victim. You have an […]

I just experienced something and it made me feel physically ill. A friend is taking care of someone’s nine year old child today. Another girlfriend happened to be in the kitchen with me at the time that the child came in. As she entered, I introduced myself and reached out to shake her hand. I […]

Every time you see a child on a computer or cell phone please realize that a bullying could be involved. How would you feel if your child or a child you know was literally bullied to death and you didn’t do anything to help when you found out about it? Forget the old adages like: […]

Wow! I was lucky enough to have been invited by a friend to attend a Country Western concert last night in Philadelphia and what a concert it was! Kenny Chesney and his Sun City Carnival Tour with Sugarland, Miranda Lambert, Montgomery Gentry and Lady Antebellum were all just amazing! The experience was overflowing with talent […]

Did you know that, unless you are seeking an in demand job, you will have a difficult time, when you attempt to go back to work? The job hunting challenge increases with each year that you were a stay at home mom. The older you are, the more likely you will be to have to […]

I just made a decision. Thanks to a comment made by a reader and a friend [even though we have not met] I am reminded of the fact that all too many of my readers are extremely fragile thanks to the divorce process. Therefore, I have changed the rules here. From now on, one strike […]

I always find it interesting when men comment on this site and blog. I guess, I wonder how or why they landed here. This blog began as one for women facing or involved in divorce. It evolved into a blog that is informational, supportive and motivational. Having said that, I have noticed that a few […]