If you don’t care for and respect you, no one else will!

Ladies, this may be the shortest blog that I have ever written. Why do so many of you think that you deserve to be treated like garbage? Please try this: Pretend that your spouse or boyfriend and you are the actors in a movie. Pretend that you are in the audience and that you are […]

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Is he cheating? Why? What should I do?

Is he cheating? Why is he cheating? What do I want to do about it? I am beginning to get jaded because of all of the moms who are asking questions or telling about their experiences with cheating spouses. I have come to the conclusion that the above questions must be asked and each mom […]

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A Thanksgiving to remember…

Sorry all, but I just had to share this Thanksgiving dinner story. My ex mother in law wanted to cook the dinner herself. To say that she wasn’t  much of a cook was an understatement. This is the truth, honest! I know because I watched her! She took the turkey and put it in the […]

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Happy Thanksgiving Mom!

I woke up this morning and for a split second, I felt sad. It has been that way for me on every holiday and birthday, since my mom died. I say for a split second because I know that my mom would have scolded me for feeling sorry for myself, had she been alive. My […]

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Dancing away from an interview…

Some of you SAHMs have asked what you can do to protect your futures, without upsetting your spouses. First, I must answer with a question, “If your spouse loves you and cares about you, why would protecting your future, in case of tragedy or divorce, upset him?” Having said that, I will offer a suggestion. […]

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A wounded child tells…

The following, is a comment from a victim of divorce. It is a plea from a child, to all parents, who unknowingly or knowingly, have crushed their children’s spirits, by bad mouthing their ex-spouses. She is begging parents, to realize that children love both of their parents. She is making a plea, for all children’s […]

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A mother’s guilt…

Why is it that, along with motherhood comes,guilthood? If a mom files for divorce, she feels guilty. If she doesn’t file, she feels guilty. If she tries to keep the marriage together, she feels guilty. If her husband is a philanderer, the mom feels guilty. If the children act out, she feels guilty. If she […]

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Stay At Home Moms Are Vulnerable To Abuse!

I have changed my blog entry because of some of the situations and moms with whom I have been in contact, recently. Many stay at home moms have fallen prey to husbands, who are controlling, abusive and unkind. These moms are so focused on their children and being perfect wives and mothers, that they have […]

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