Tag Archive: divorce perspective

High Conflict People = Never Ending Divorce

The story is one I hear repeatedly. Why can’t our divorce just be over? The reality is that people must understand that the same issues that played a role during marriage play a role during divorce and play a role after divorce. Rarely do things change. Try this on for size. Think about the people […]

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Antisocial Personality Disorder – Divorce

The holidays bring out the good in most people and sadly the bad in others. This is a time of year when my coaching calls are filled with conversations about sad happenings in people’s lives. So many women blame themselves for the actions of others.  We must take responsibility for our own actions but certainly […]

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Divorce Danger

From press releases on foreclosure and divorce to divorce parties to a Yankee’s star hiring new divorce attorneys to Social Security benefits not ending with divorce to Larry King to………….! Why is it that every day, there is a new headline BUT brides will not face or even spend a second or a dollar of […]

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Fourth of July and Custody

Who has the kids? If you are newly divorced or if the time has just flown by since you were divorced, you may not be sure.  If you and your ex-husband are adult enough to communicate and be civil, the decision may be simple. If either of you tend to act on the juvenile side […]

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A Thank Your from an Ex-Husband

I just received an email and I must say that it was rather refreshing. Actually, it was from a man which in and of itself was different from the norm. I would like to share it with you. Claudia, I found out about your site because you helped my ex-wife a lot. When we were […]

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Divorce and Family Gatherings

As Easter and other holidays approach, please remember that you and your spouse are divorced or divorcing. Your children did not cause the break up and if you love them, you will keep them out of the crossfire. When family times involve divorce, the tension can be difficult to endure. Remember that as problematic as […]

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Your Future Depends on Facing the Facts

More and more, divorce is coming into play after a couple has been married for more than 20 years. That may seem odd unless it happens to you. A “gazillion” years ago, a friend’s mother filed for divorce the day her younger sister graduated from high school. She was shocked because her parents had been […]

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I am Divorced. Now What?

That’s a loaded question and I hear it a lot. It seems like more and more, my new clients have come to me in the middle or toward the end of their divorce processes. Many or probably most of them are extremely vulnerable. It’s hard to believe but sometimes, life can be more difficult when […]

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