Tag Archive: divorce perspective

Is The Wife Really The Last to Know?

We have all heard, “The wife is the last one know.” I don’t think that is necessarily true. I can’t tell you how often women ask me the question, “Why didn’t I see the signs that he was cheating?” The reasons for the question vary but they all seem to go back to the same […]

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Rape Is Rape!

I just got off of a coaching call that ripped at my heart. The woman told me that I can share her story because she hopes that it might help other women. Background: Shelly (not her real name) has been married for nine years and wants to file for divorce but is not sure that […]

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If You Stay, Your Past Will Be Your Future

There is no crystal ball needed. To gain perspective for your own situation, you must answer the questions. I can help you but ultimately, you must figure things out for yourself. I have shared answers. Please replace them with your own. THE BROKEN HEART QUIZ CAN SHOW YOUR FUTURE When you first met this person, what […]

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Valentine’s Day Broken Heart Quiz

Today is a very difficult day for anyone who is without a significant other. It is even more difficult for those who have recently lost a love or have a marriage that has ended. So, for those of you who have a relationship that has broken, this quiz just might give perspective and might even […]

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Stay at Home Moms’ Job Security

This is a post I wrote in 2007, I believe the message is poignant and very appropriate to be shared in 2013. Recently, a friend asked me to look at a copy of the local newspaper section on jobs. As I was going through the ads, one heading really hit home. The question was asked, […]

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It’s Not What You Think!

One of my newest clients called me yesterday afternoon and it wasn’t her scheduled appointment time. When I saw the caller ID, I knew something was wrong and luckily I had some time. She has given me permission to share her story. Basically, she had been emotionally, verbally, and financially abused by her husband for […]

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Divorce Begins with D… Duh!

D is for DIVORCE so remember the six “D’s!” Decision making Determining Doing Detailing Documenting Dedicating

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Valentine’s Day Vulnerabilities

You are going through a rough time right now and you are so vulnerable. You would not be on this site if that were not the case. You are thinking about the good times with your soon to be ex-husband. You are remembering how he used to be. You want to feel less lonely and […]

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