Angry Woman
Friends, I have been asked over and over what are the main things that hinder the divorce process especially regarding custody issues. Things that you can change with the right attitude so here we go:
1. Take care of yourself. This is not a time that you should shortchange anything that will help your health; both emotional and physical.
2. Figure out exactly what you need and always keep going in that direction. Don’t let anger creep in an cause you to go in a different direction.
3. If you are the one who has decided to divorce, get all your documents copied and hide them in at least two safe places before you tell ANYONE about the divorce. If you have been blindsided by divorce, take immediate action by copying anything and everything you can lay your hands on.
4. Try not to be impatient. Divorce will not end quickly. It is a process and depending on how sensible both parties are and how ethical both attorneys are the time could be shortened. Add greed and anger to the scenario and the process will go on longer.
5. Prepare yourself every way you can. Work on a strategy especially so that you don’t lose any time with your children. Think before you act. Select the right attorney.
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