Someone just asked me to list the five most important things to do when preparing for a divorce. That’s a bit tough since the person didn’t mention the time frame. Is it a year before, a month before, has he has already left or is it in the thinking stage?
Without knowing any of the above, these are the five steps that would make the most sense:
1. Copy every single document you can put your hands on and photograph all of the contents in your home. Store them in a safe place, preferably not at home.
2. Put away a nest egg so that you won’t be strapped if he leaves you without access to funds.
3. If you don’t have a job outside of the home, begin to prepare a resume that includes letters of recommendation. If you are uncertain as to how to write an appropriate resume, there are places on line such as Resume Writing Biz [affiliate] that can help you.
4. Get a credit card in your own name.
5. Research and interview attorneys.
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