Getting A Divorce

Often, I share emails that I receive. For a change, I want to share the email I wrote back last night. It will give you an idea of the kind of  interaction that I have with my clients.

Okay woman, One last email before I go to bed.  

Now I am going to give you a brain awakening…reality check! Stop the washed up…old…thrown out stuff! You are in the dumps and who wouldn’t be? Get some sleep and tomorrow exercise and sunshine and then pick yourself up…dust yourself off and stop the pity party!  Am I tough or what? 😉

Sure you are sad. Who wouldn’t be? Believe it or not, all of the stuff that you are enduring is going to change your life for the better. For the first time since you got married and became a mother, you are going to learn how to be you again. You are going to eat up all that you are and all that you can be. You are going to spit out the parts of the you that you no longer want.

Cut the garbage about nothing fun in your life now…hello? You are going through Hell! Hell is not a lot of fun…at least that’s what I’ve heard!! Get through this however is best for you and then suck it up and move on!!

It means the world to me that you say that I am helping you so much and I appreciate your kind words. I do what I do because I know that I can make a difference and help women to avoid the kind of pain that many have experienced…including me!

NO! You are not making more of the ——– stuff than you should!! No! You’re not hanging on to the adrenalin stuff to avoid feelings!! You are going through Hell. Accept it! Understand it! Embrace it! Learn from it and eventually move on! Not today, not tomorrow but at some point, you will need to move on!!

Please just do me one favor! Don’t go on Match.com and get entangled with some jerk right now. That will only complicate matters!

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Photo: Patricia Drury