Timing is everything, including on Valentine’s Day.
You have something on your mind and plan to talk with your husband when he comes home from work. Don’t do it!
Don’t bring up a difficult subject the minute he comes home. Why? The reason is that people are not capable of appropriate actions or reactions when they are exhausted.
For a relationship to succeed, communication is vital. In order to succeed at communication and marriage, a foundation must be built.
If you are considering divorce because you and your spouse can’t communicate effectively, you may be able help the situation by making a few changes. Quality communication takes practice. Without communication, conflicts can’t be resolved.
Here are a few tips:
1. Compromise.
2. Understand that there are no winners or losers in an argument.
3. Try to present and be open to solutions to your problems.
4. Pick your timing and present the issues positively.
5. Listen, really listen.
6. Repeat what your spouse says in order be certain that you understand what he is saying.
7. If the discussion becomes volatile, it’s totally fine to take a break and finish at a better time.
8. Remember that your facial expressions play a role in the success of your dialogue.
9. Be honest and don’t beat around the bush about what you are trying to say. Above all, don’t demean your partner.
10. Acknowledge the fact that you might need someone to help you improve your communication problem.
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