Answering Yes Is Not Good

Are you involved in a difficult relationship?

You might still be married. You might be in a relationship. Whatever the case, if you are considering ending it, you must ask a few questions.

Without sincere honesty, the wrong decision might become the reality. Answering yes to more than a few of these questions might indicate  potential failure.

 

  • Is there a lot of arguing or fighting in your relationship?
  • Are either one of you unwilling to compromise?
  • Are either one of you negative in the way you face life?
  • Do either one of you constantly blame the other for things that go wrong?
  • Do either one of you refuse to take responsibility for issues?
  • Do either of you refuse to reflect on your own actions?
  • Do either of you have difficulty empathizing with the other?
  • Do either of you bring up the past constantly?
  • Do either of you refuse to forgive?

Please, really think about these things because ultimately they do act as a foundation for the success or failure of your marriage.

Photo: Dave Goodman