Some of you are in the “I’m not sure if my marriage can be saved” mode.
You have related abusive stories and some of you have had your husbands neglect you or cheat on you. Yet you are not certain about which way to turn and you are still hanging on.
So many of you have swept your concerns under the proverbial carpet and have invited your estranged husbands back into your beds.
Here is the thing. A brief escape that brings past memories and feelings to the surface may give you a temporary high. But in the long run, it can be detrimental because your vision of reality becomes clouded.
The best thing is to ask yourself a couple of questions before you take a plunge into temporary pleasure between the sheets.
1. Why are we getting divorced?
2. Take the answer to #1 and ask: What if anything has changed?
Your answers will tell you what to do. Are you ignoring reality in an effort to feel less lonely and less of a failure temporarily?
Are you grasping at a quick fix to your problems or are you taking a nosedive into the very same quicksand that triggered your divorce in the first place?
Only you will have the answers.
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